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A middle-class family.

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Generally, a middle-class is a perfect example of adjustments and sacrifices. It is the place where your responsibilities has more importance than your dreams. A few people are luckier to have their dreams achieved despite of having in a middle-class family.                            Thought Process. For a poor family it's the hunger which is most important to them, for rich it's all about making and having more money and for a Middle-class family it's the family and responsibilities which is the most important thing. They can go to any extent for the welfare of their family and it's the best part of this sector. You will miss that love in the other sectors.                              Comfort zones.      Having a house and a wagon  for their family it's the main and basic comfort zones for them. Having go...

Cyber bullying.

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One of the major problems of this era is Cyberbullying.  What is actually cyberbullying means ? How does it affects our mind and how can it be prevented ?  Cyberbullying: - It is use of internet to insult or to make somebody feel down on their selves. Many people are misusing the power of internet to influence others in much negative way. They don't much care about the feelings of the one to whom they are causing these things. They just do it for the sake of their fun and to insult the person opposite to them. There can be so many reason of doing as per their perspections. They don't have any clue about the results or the effect they are making on one's mind. There is difference in defaming a person who plays different cards to stay safe and depressing a boy to commit suicide without any confirmation of his fault. This difference should be understand by the people. Sometimes it's not cyberbullying but it is cyberjustice. The bullies should also h...

Nepotism.

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The power to make your near and dear feel superior. Is that good or bad ? Does it always helps ?  Nepostism:- The power used in unfair means to give better things or advantage to your family and friends. Many people can have different and opposite reaction of it. We used to hear that there was a king and he had a Prince who later on took control over the kingdom, but it is a centuries old tale. In today's world if a tea seller can become a PM of India then definitely this is not the time of Kings and the Prince's.  But many people are not ready to accept this facts and are mocking the deserved once and giving opportunities to their loved and so called superior ones. They are uplifting the uplifted ones. The person with too much of talent and intellectuality is not welcomed but the person with a good family background is strongly welcomed.  This can be observed in every field but as per present scenario and condition let's bear the torch on the Bollywood. The w...

Self-Sufficient..

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Can u explain your self much better than a Maths formula ? Are you aware of your strength and your weaknesses ? Just take 5 minutes of the 24 hours and think about yourself. It will give you all the answers. Self-Sufficient :- It is the state where you are not much aware of the other's life and you have complete attention towards ownself.  Expectations always led to disappointments. It is the universal truth that whenver you expect a lot from anyone or anybody you will always end up hurting yourself. We are too dependent in our life that we always think that ,"Agar ye mil jaaye to ye ho jayega n maja aa jayega". But it never happens, if you are obsessed with something and finally you get , you will be happy but only for few days or months.   We are so much obsessed with other's life that we even don't know ourself. We don't have the list of what we can do and what we can't. We know the facts that this world is weird it makes fun of ...

Depression.

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Do you ever feel depressed ? How do you cope with that situation and how do you overcome it thoroughly ?  Answer to this questions can vary from person to person.  Let's try to find out what depression is how to cope with in simple ways...                Depression:- It is the state of mind which make us to feel low. It's definitions can vary according to different fields.   It is like that white ant which eats up the inner layer of the woods and make it worthless and hollow from inside. There is a basic difference between a Sad person and a Depressed person as the person who is sad, he/she can be recognized that yes, he or she is sad but the person who suffers from depression, cannot be recognized because they have a wide smile on their face and a deep grief inside them. A depression is not a joke it's the worst enemy as it can kill you while you are still alive , it can make you a living dead body. It can make you holl...

Open-minded.

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       "  An open room doesn't have the issues of                   darkness.." An open mind is like the supply of oxygen to our lungs. But as only oxygen is useful for human health so as the positive vibes for our mind is needed to keep it healthy. Open-minded person is like the book which has no issues of saving or leaking anything from it.  An open minded person is like the store where all the types of groceries are available. It has ideas to evolve the things going on, it has the power to motivate anybody, it remains free from the killers like stress and depression, and it also act as a shield which keeps the dirty thoughts away from it. People with this mindset shares their thoughts and ideas freely. They offer compliments to the deserved ones.  While a person with closed mindset feels insecure to share any ideas and thoughts to others. They have a mindset that no one deserve to be trusted a...

Adaptability.

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"Changes are the nature of life."  But the question is should we change? What will happen if we do and what will happen if we don't? Is adapting the situation ,a good decision?  To chaliye shuru karte hain ..... Adaptability :- It is the change of us according to our environment and the conditions. It is the basic nature and it is seen in every thing. If this was not so then, Ramapithecus would never have transformed to Homo Sapiens.  The first thing which come across is the factors which makes you to change or to evolve. The factors can be Genetic, Emotional, Psychological, or even Physical. A person can turn to be extreme cruel if he/she saw any injustice happening to their lovable assets and the perfect example of it is none other than Adolf Hitler. There are news of the people who commit suicide on little things such as loosing many matches in a multiplayer game , or rejection by a boy or girl or not getting great grades in exams. What is the main reason b...

Confidence.

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Do you have confidence? Is that confidence is that much strong that it is not affected by the negative people and your negative thoughts? How to make to that much strong that no one can influence it?  Let's get started then...... Confidence :- It is like tha ray of hope in a dark. It is like that ray which comes through the hole of the roof. With this you can win any battle and without this you can loose any fight.  This is among the most essential factors which affect your goals. It can led you to your aim with full efficiency. It is like the nitro of the cars which boost you up to achieve what you want to. Suppose there is an gym opening in your area and Sangram Chaugale has come to inaugurate it. You are his fan but you are too skinny then you would have much courage to go to him. The problem is not that you are too skinny but the problem is that you lack Confidence , you cannot muster courage to withstand in front of his personality. Again problem arises that h...

Communication..

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For you, what is communication ? What are it's types ? What are it's barriers ? How can we make an effective communication ? What are the components of an effective communication ?  Let's try to figure out these all questions.. Communication:- Generally ,the sharing of ideas , facts , opinion from one body to another body is called communication. The body can be a single person or a group of person. It is a two-way process in which the speaker has responsibility to deliver the best he/she can to their audience or listener and the listener also have that responsibility to listen to the speaker and give a proper feedback to him/her.                Essentials of communication Many things should be kept in mind during an communication some of these are  Attentiveness , Listening ability , Open-thoughts , Bunch of information on that topic ( it is essential as you have no right to misguide your audience) , Confidence , Friendly na...

Gratitude..

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Basically , the questions that comes in our mind is that what is Gratitude ? Does it make any impact on our life ? Does it plays any role in our life ? Let's tackle these all questions..  Gratitude :- It is the feeling of being thankful towards the condition , kindness ,etc.,. which takes place in our life.  It is the feeling which makes us grateful to the situations and the conditions of our life. Being grateful is not the sign of weakness , it is the sign of maturity. When you become able to say Thanks to your parent's for this beautiful life then it is the day You became a mature person. Millennials have a general concept that our parents did nothing for us. They generally think "Ye to aapka dharm tha". They started to teach them their duties. They forget that they are nothing just a shadow of their parents.  Parent can have their child even if they loose you but you can't have another Mother and Father if once you lost them. Be respectful and grate...

The Best Phase of My Life..

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Today basically , I'll tell you about a place which has a separate value and spirituality. It was established 34 years ago in 1986 and it's chairman is RAMESH POKHRIYAL. Many of you will be aware about that place , it is the place where seats can't be purchased , it is the place which requires hardwork to get in , it is the place which is spiritual, evil , good and at last best as per different phases of it's journey , it is the place which can be defined as pure example of SECULARISM , because there no one is Hindu, Muslim , Sikh or Christian all are in the same family. The idea of establishing this place had came from Late Rajiv Gandhi. That place is Jawahar Navodaya Vidyalaya(JNV).  The logo itself expresses it's aim.. Yes,  I'm a Navodayan and have proud of it. I studied in JNV Dunetha Daman and it was established in 1989. Daman is an UT near the state of Gujarat. For middle class family Navodaya is an Emotion.  This was g...