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The thing that awakens sometimes.

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" Jaane kitno ne jaane di thi, jaane kitno ne goli khaayi thi ; kyu jhuth bolte ho sahab ki charkhe se aazadi aayi thi...." There are certain things that is present in our minds. But some things are like Mummies they evoked only on certain occasions and rest of the time it is like a corpse in the corners of our hearts. And one of the major thing in this is PATRIOTISM.  This is the thing which is present is the hearts of every citizen living in a country but it has many stages; some people show it fluently, some donot only show it but also make others to follow it too. But majority of people have this as precious closet which is shown only on occasions. I'll consider it with an example;  we are all aware of the incidents in which our tricolour was burnt or damaged in many different ways. Some of us showed rage , some of us showed our support and some of us also blamed others for that but at the end this matter was somehow forgotten.  People have different minds...

The first thing you get.

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There are many untold and told thing you come to know about someone by the passage of time, but there is always a thing which can never be completely changed. It can be change to an extent but not completely. Don't wonder too much that thing is nothing other than 'IMPRESSION.' This is the thing which everyone creates to the person he meets and get judged by the person opposite to them. We all try our level best to represent ourselves infront of a stranger and in the race of representing ourselves better we often turn to be little fake and it is also justified. Suppose you are going for an interview of a general manager you will definitely go for a little expensive dressing and an extra layer of goodness to us. This the basic thing that everyone will try to have the much better impact of us whenever we meet someone.   But still this is not the problem but the problem starts where you get judged on the basis of your first meeting.  The person whom you meet at th...

The most unusual but acceptable thing.

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" Kuchh to majburi rahi hogi sahab warna, yuhi koi kancho ki jagah ketli nhi le leta..." Most of the People would have been aware of the topic we are going to discuss today. And if not then I'll let you know. So today's topic is Child labour. Let start the topic with a real life example; we just can't imagine a chai tapri without a CHHOTU. This CHHOTU is the only thing that has to be converted.    Generally, we all have our part of problems in life and we are all obsessed with it too. But someone's problem can also be tragic to an extent. At the time of reading books many children are reading your orders, despite of serving the nation with their education they are serving their customers. They too have their dreams as a used and trashed tissue paper in their heart , which is of no use to them. But the problem is that due to their worse family condition and starvation led them to accept what they should not. For a needy their basic needs are much mo...

The most ingored thing in a Middle-class family.

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Middle-class family is basically the hub of the society from where the Best comes. But as there are two sides of every coin and every other law has drawbacks , middle-class family also has certain limitations beyond which a person can't go.  All of us are awared of the best things comes from a middle-class background but there are also certain things which you have to sacrifice or leave behind in order to have a coordination with the family and members. In simple words middle-class family is the most ignored and underrated part of the society. It is just like that side kick of the movies who is appreciated for his role but people don't want to see them as the main actor or in a lead role.  The most ignored thing of the middle-class sector is the HOBBIES and INTERESTS. In our childhood our hobbies and interests are supported by our family because they don't want to put the burden of understanding over your tensile shoulders. But as we grow up somewhere our hobbie...

Indian Armed Forces.

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Indian Armed Forces inspiration of many but ambition of few. All the defence system Indian Police Service ,  Indian Navy , Indian Air Force and Indian Army come under the title of Indian Armed Forces. But as per me Naval and Air Force officials get their part of respect in the society but Indian Army doesn't.  Many of you can have different opinions but today I am considering Indian Army.  For every strong foundation there should be very strong and dependable Pillars. As Pillars are the main supporting and protecting structure of a foundation as are the Army of any country as they prevent and build the borders of a country strong. They prevent any outsiders to enter and capture any inch of the land for that they are ready to lay down their lives as well. Everyone of us doesn't have that courage to do an one-time investment of their lives. Because jo return policy is available here , you just nees guts to chew irony grams before joining Armed Forces. What you g...

Celebrity life.

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"The brightest morning has the darkest night." Who doesn't want to be in a limelight ? Who doesn't want to have their supporters their fans ? Who doesn't want to be termed themselves as Celebrity ?  The answer to all these questions is NOBODY. As everyone wants to be famous and have their fans. Everyone want to get appreciated and recognised all around the globe or at least in their own country.  We all see the life of a celebrity as a very comfortable, ideal, full of happiness and the most important elements FAME and MONEY. Everyone want to go to Filmcity and have their auditions and selection in the movie industry. As we all see is just the happy and lavish image of the artists working there. We have a same believe that if we went to this industry then we will have many friends, wellwishers, supporters and all the wishes which we have in our mind will be fulfilled, like we will have our own house, our favourite bikes, mobiles and all the things which...

A middle-class family.

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Generally, a middle-class is a perfect example of adjustments and sacrifices. It is the place where your responsibilities has more importance than your dreams. A few people are luckier to have their dreams achieved despite of having in a middle-class family.                            Thought Process. For a poor family it's the hunger which is most important to them, for rich it's all about making and having more money and for a Middle-class family it's the family and responsibilities which is the most important thing. They can go to any extent for the welfare of their family and it's the best part of this sector. You will miss that love in the other sectors.                              Comfort zones.      Having a house and a wagon  for their family it's the main and basic comfort zones for them. Having go...

Cyber bullying.

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One of the major problems of this era is Cyberbullying.  What is actually cyberbullying means ? How does it affects our mind and how can it be prevented ?  Cyberbullying: - It is use of internet to insult or to make somebody feel down on their selves. Many people are misusing the power of internet to influence others in much negative way. They don't much care about the feelings of the one to whom they are causing these things. They just do it for the sake of their fun and to insult the person opposite to them. There can be so many reason of doing as per their perspections. They don't have any clue about the results or the effect they are making on one's mind. There is difference in defaming a person who plays different cards to stay safe and depressing a boy to commit suicide without any confirmation of his fault. This difference should be understand by the people. Sometimes it's not cyberbullying but it is cyberjustice. The bullies should also h...

Nepotism.

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The power to make your near and dear feel superior. Is that good or bad ? Does it always helps ?  Nepostism:- The power used in unfair means to give better things or advantage to your family and friends. Many people can have different and opposite reaction of it. We used to hear that there was a king and he had a Prince who later on took control over the kingdom, but it is a centuries old tale. In today's world if a tea seller can become a PM of India then definitely this is not the time of Kings and the Prince's.  But many people are not ready to accept this facts and are mocking the deserved once and giving opportunities to their loved and so called superior ones. They are uplifting the uplifted ones. The person with too much of talent and intellectuality is not welcomed but the person with a good family background is strongly welcomed.  This can be observed in every field but as per present scenario and condition let's bear the torch on the Bollywood. The w...

Self-Sufficient..

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Can u explain your self much better than a Maths formula ? Are you aware of your strength and your weaknesses ? Just take 5 minutes of the 24 hours and think about yourself. It will give you all the answers. Self-Sufficient :- It is the state where you are not much aware of the other's life and you have complete attention towards ownself.  Expectations always led to disappointments. It is the universal truth that whenver you expect a lot from anyone or anybody you will always end up hurting yourself. We are too dependent in our life that we always think that ,"Agar ye mil jaaye to ye ho jayega n maja aa jayega". But it never happens, if you are obsessed with something and finally you get , you will be happy but only for few days or months.   We are so much obsessed with other's life that we even don't know ourself. We don't have the list of what we can do and what we can't. We know the facts that this world is weird it makes fun of ...

Depression.

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Do you ever feel depressed ? How do you cope with that situation and how do you overcome it thoroughly ?  Answer to this questions can vary from person to person.  Let's try to find out what depression is how to cope with in simple ways...                Depression:- It is the state of mind which make us to feel low. It's definitions can vary according to different fields.   It is like that white ant which eats up the inner layer of the woods and make it worthless and hollow from inside. There is a basic difference between a Sad person and a Depressed person as the person who is sad, he/she can be recognized that yes, he or she is sad but the person who suffers from depression, cannot be recognized because they have a wide smile on their face and a deep grief inside them. A depression is not a joke it's the worst enemy as it can kill you while you are still alive , it can make you a living dead body. It can make you holl...

Open-minded.

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       "  An open room doesn't have the issues of                   darkness.." An open mind is like the supply of oxygen to our lungs. But as only oxygen is useful for human health so as the positive vibes for our mind is needed to keep it healthy. Open-minded person is like the book which has no issues of saving or leaking anything from it.  An open minded person is like the store where all the types of groceries are available. It has ideas to evolve the things going on, it has the power to motivate anybody, it remains free from the killers like stress and depression, and it also act as a shield which keeps the dirty thoughts away from it. People with this mindset shares their thoughts and ideas freely. They offer compliments to the deserved ones.  While a person with closed mindset feels insecure to share any ideas and thoughts to others. They have a mindset that no one deserve to be trusted a...

Adaptability.

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"Changes are the nature of life."  But the question is should we change? What will happen if we do and what will happen if we don't? Is adapting the situation ,a good decision?  To chaliye shuru karte hain ..... Adaptability :- It is the change of us according to our environment and the conditions. It is the basic nature and it is seen in every thing. If this was not so then, Ramapithecus would never have transformed to Homo Sapiens.  The first thing which come across is the factors which makes you to change or to evolve. The factors can be Genetic, Emotional, Psychological, or even Physical. A person can turn to be extreme cruel if he/she saw any injustice happening to their lovable assets and the perfect example of it is none other than Adolf Hitler. There are news of the people who commit suicide on little things such as loosing many matches in a multiplayer game , or rejection by a boy or girl or not getting great grades in exams. What is the main reason b...

Confidence.

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Do you have confidence? Is that confidence is that much strong that it is not affected by the negative people and your negative thoughts? How to make to that much strong that no one can influence it?  Let's get started then...... Confidence :- It is like tha ray of hope in a dark. It is like that ray which comes through the hole of the roof. With this you can win any battle and without this you can loose any fight.  This is among the most essential factors which affect your goals. It can led you to your aim with full efficiency. It is like the nitro of the cars which boost you up to achieve what you want to. Suppose there is an gym opening in your area and Sangram Chaugale has come to inaugurate it. You are his fan but you are too skinny then you would have much courage to go to him. The problem is not that you are too skinny but the problem is that you lack Confidence , you cannot muster courage to withstand in front of his personality. Again problem arises that h...