The most ingored thing in a Middle-class family.
Middle-class family is basically the hub of the society from where the Best comes. But as there are two sides of every coin and every other law has drawbacks , middle-class family also has certain limitations beyond which a person can't go.
Then there is only one way always be there with a BACKUP plan i.e.,. If I failed in this then I can go with that. This will prevent you from regrets and at least you will have the answer that your hobby was a good career option for you or not. Interest led to success but not always, sometimes it may be disheartening and unsuccessful too , just be prepared for the other one. You can continue your hobby as your sudekick along with your work, never let it die as you are the only one who has awakened it in you.
All of us are awared of the best things comes from a middle-class background but there are also certain things which you have to sacrifice or leave behind in order to have a coordination with the family and members. In simple words middle-class family is the most ignored and underrated part of the society. It is just like that side kick of the movies who is appreciated for his role but people don't want to see them as the main actor or in a lead role.
The most ignored thing of the middle-class sector is the HOBBIES and INTERESTS. In our childhood our hobbies and interests are supported by our family because they don't want to put the burden of understanding over your tensile shoulders. But as we grow up somewhere our hobbies literally died or left with just a mark in our mind. Can you think why ?
The simplest reason is due to responsibilities and bothering for a way of earning a good livelihood and keep your family happy. Many cameras, guitars , unpublished songs are still there in someone's room under the burden of their career. For us photography is a hobby not a career, for us watching and appreciating an actor is good but not trying to be one, listening and connecting the lyrics of the songs to our life is good but not try to write one, etc.,.
If you will try to consider photography, acting, singer and lyricist as your career then you will be givenan answer that "Beta paise kaha se aayenge ? Kamayega kitna ? Hamare naseeb me kaha ye sab." Praising an luxury car gives us happiness but thinking of it gives us pain and blame on our LUCK. We believe in lines of our hand more than Hardwork. Our half of the life ends up blaming our luck and having regret of being a man/woman of a middle-class sector.
But end of all this is not the failure of the our bringings but this is only the matter of situations which we create and then try to fled away from it. If you want a luxury car then dreaming only and blaming your condition will give you nothing , it's all upon you if you want that then work as per your demands. Following your Hobby will led you to success it's a good thought but what if you fail ? What if you donot got an opportunity ?
Then there is only one way always be there with a BACKUP plan i.e.,. If I failed in this then I can go with that. This will prevent you from regrets and at least you will have the answer that your hobby was a good career option for you or not. Interest led to success but not always, sometimes it may be disheartening and unsuccessful too , just be prepared for the other one. You can continue your hobby as your sudekick along with your work, never let it die as you are the only one who has awakened it in you.
Be prepared for the unprepared ones, life is a ride and anything can happen here ,either right or wrong....
Absolutely true yrr...👍
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