Confidence.

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Do you have confidence? Is that confidence is that much strong that it is not affected by the negative people and your negative thoughts? How to make to that much strong that no one can influence it? 

Let's get started then......
Confidence:- It is like tha ray of hope in a dark. It is like that ray which comes through the hole of the roof. With this you can win any battle and without this you can loose any fight. 

This is among the most essential factors which affect your goals. It can led you to your aim with full efficiency. It is like the nitro of the cars which boost you up to achieve what you want to. Suppose there is an gym opening in your area and Sangram Chaugale has come to inaugurate it. You are his fan but you are too skinny then you would have much courage to go to him. The problem is not that you are too skinny but the problem is that you lack Confidence , you cannot muster courage to withstand in front of his personality. Again problem arises that how to boost up our confidence?

Look up for the above things mention in the pic. 

1.The first step towards building your confidence is accept what you are and be thankful for it. 
2. Don't get affected by the negative thoughts and people around. 
3. Believe in youself.
4. Be optimistic and think ,"Yes, I can. I will."
5. Show happiness towards your achievements. 
6. Don't get stuffed in too many rules.
7. Don't hesitate in trying something different. 


Believe in yourself and never let yourself down respective to conditions. Accepting conditions is the sign of dead, build your option out of nowhere. Talk to yourself, admire yourself, develop optimsm, don't get afraid of the problems, and focus on what you have rather than crying of what you don't have. 

The day you become confident is the day you started your journey towards your goal. When any UPSC aspirant failed in their 1st attempt then many peole ( jinhe kuchh lena dena nhi hai tumahare career se) they get started to give you suggestion about your career. Who the hell are you to decide my career? If they give  advice then it's okay , it is respected but they start to taunt you. You just have to stay aware from these persons because they are going to feed your family. Just built your self-confidence like the pillar of the building. Pillars are the main support of any structure in that way your Self-confidence is the pillar if your future as well as your life. 


Start believing in your abilities and appreciating them. Because if you failed to achieve something people will blame you, not the situations.

Try your level best till you get the title SUCCESS......

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