The first thing you get.

There are many untold and told thing you come to know about someone by the passage of time, but there is always a thing which can never be completely changed. It can be change to an extent but not completely. Don't wonder too much that thing is nothing other than 'IMPRESSION.'

This is the thing which everyone creates to the person he meets and get judged by the person opposite to them. We all try our level best to represent ourselves infront of a stranger and in the race of representing ourselves better we often turn to be little fake and it is also justified. Suppose you are going for an interview of a general manager you will definitely go for a little expensive dressing and an extra layer of goodness to us. This the basic thing that everyone will try to have the much better impact of us whenever we meet someone.   But still this is not the problem but the problem starts where you get judged on the basis of your first meeting. 

The person whom you meet at the first time is slightly different to the person whom you meet to n time. You will come to know that you somehow have misjudged him/her on your 1st meeting. 

In the race of have the impression of a better person somehow we ingore our real one. It's good to look slight better on such occasions but the personality doesn't changes overnight. We all get worried about how to represent ourselves somewhere as soon as our resume get accepted. Why ? 

We are so endorsed to present ourselves better but we forget that all the other person in this world is also trying to do the same. Look is primary until you open your mouth to utter a word. Always try to make your first meeting adorable not impressive. As we are adored lifetime but cannot be as impressive as we were. 

In short, our personality cannot be changed overnight. We can dress well, look good but the person inside that clothes is the same. Start imaging and practicing what you want become and this will led to make less efforts in an interview. 

The last and basic question stands that why we do this ? Why we try to look better than others ? The answer to this question is we are very much afraid of the FAILURES in our life. We want success at first attempt, we do not want or we just can't imagine ourselves to sit in that same interview for the second time. But the fact is behind every successful person there is a mistake from which they learn their most valuable lesson of their life. So, don't give up, just keep trying and be YOU. 

Spent some time with yourself as you are the most ignored person by yourself.......