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Today's Youth.

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India is largest country in terms of youth but what's our ranking in terms of technology ? It's not stands in 10 , 20 and not even 30 , it's position is 44 this year. Then what is our youth doing ? They are fighting over the matter of Tiktok vs Youtube and they are much aware of Ranveer's relationship than dying Migrants. Let's have a talk about different matters and the thinking of our so called YOUTH. This logo explains everything we are going to discuss. Tiktok and Youtube these both are entertaining applications , one of them is short video-platform and other one is a big or extended video platform. Tiktok gives quick fame as compared to youtube. This is not the problem that this one better n that one is worse but the problem lies with us. We endorse ourselves so deeply in this fight that we are not even aware of our condition.  COVID19 is becoming an undefeated devil day-by-day , thousands of lives are being knocked out , thousands of migrants are m...

Mature and Immature.

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Are we truelly matured ? What is the age of attaining maturity ? How a mature person act and how a immature person behaves in a certain condition ?  Maturity is not related to your age , you can see a 10 years old boy carrying off his family burden or even an 25 years old boy who depends on his family like a burden. Maturity is not just having a perfectly trimmed beard and a perfect example of it is Ashish Chanchalani and Amir Sidddique. Maturity is when you start to realise that you are the one who is responsible for the failures of your life not the conditions. A mature people takes the responsibility in spite of blaming others. The decisions we all take in our life can be somewhere bad or even worst but for that no other but only we are the responsible. We must take the responsibility and try to put extreme efforts next time when the same phase stands against us. Maturity is not speaking everywhere and proving ourselves better but it is also being QUITE a...

Career.

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Choosing our career is one the most important question of our lives. It is the question that can let you asleep for many days. Which stream should we choose? What are the options available in it? How can we make fortune of it? Etc.,. are the main question that comes in our mind when we start to think about our career. At 6: "I'll become a doctor." At 16: " Let's go with maths." At 18: "  Let's go for engineering , will get placement n career is all set". At 23 : " Koi job mil jaaye bas." This is the basic condition of the people around us. We usually go with the stream of many influences. After that we realized that all the options are fucked up and again the question haunts that:- How to do a career planning and what are the things we should keep in mind before going for an option ?  A career planning is basically a calculation which we make to choose our career. The main thing we have in our mind at that time is How to m...

Mentality.

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What is mentality and does it affects our goals ? Does is affects our success ? How does it is affected ? What are the factors affecting ? These are the some of the general questions which starts to appear like a ghost in our mind when we ever think or read about mantality. Mentality: It is the state of condition of mind in way it thinks or we make it to think. It depends on many factors such as :- 1. Habits and behaviour.  2. Responsibilities.  3. Family.  4. Surroundings.  5. Emotions. 6. Circle around you. 7. Living state/conditions.etc.,. These are the main factors on which a person's mindset or mentality depends on. Responsibilities can makes us too mature even at an immature/tendile age. It's main example is that Chhotu who serves you tea at tha Tafri. If a person is too much poor and can't afford one-time meal for his/her  family then , they can go to any level to fulfil their family meal. This is only the power of responsibilities. Life is no...

Overthinking.

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Do you overthink ? Is that always helpful or it makes you aware of the problems arising in future ? What type of impact it makes on your relationship ? Brain: It is the organ or the main mechanism of thinking n having your own n unique perspective. Someone can't change his brain but he/she can change his/her mind and also their way or level of thinking.  Thinking is the process by which we makes assumptions about the particular situation and also we get our answers of many questions through it. Sometimes , we basically overprepare or overthink which helps us in imagining the both aspects of that situation. Overthinking helps us to prepare about what to do if it happens or what not to do if it not happened. But is this always help us ? Or sometimes it create confusion or misunderstanding? Overthinking gradually makes you habitual of seeing a world with two perspectives: positive and negative. This led to a mindset in which not a single...

Ego and Self-respect.

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What is Ego? Is there a difference in Self-respect and Ego? Or these both are the same? How an Egoist sees a world and how a intellectual with Self-respect sees this world? Let's try to cop with with this many aroused questions  Proving yourself better than a person and understanding your own value is called Self-respect. While, misjudging yourself as best is termed as Ego. Ego is the factor that comes in a person's mind which literally made them blind , they can't even evaluate between truth and false. When a person acquire this in place of Self-respect , he/she looses their value in society, ownself , and also in the eye's of the relatives. There is only a little or minor line between Self-respect and Ego. But it affects one's whole life. That minor or negligible line can change a whole mindset of a person. For ex:- Duryodhan was a good warrior , he had a large army led by Pitamaah Bhishma , Mahadaani Karna , Guru Kripaacharya , Guru Drona ...

Passion & Ambition.

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What are u most passionate about? Are u trying your best to convert that passion  into your career?  Passion:- It is basically the work or thing you like to do and it makes you happier irrespective of time. But is a passion a way towards your CAREER? If yes, then, how hard you are trying to achieve it? And if no, what according to you  a career is?  Many question haunts us whenever there is mention of our CAREER or our AIM.  The thing which you are best at can be your career but it depends on how much you are giving efforts to turn that down. There are many factors that affect your career such as:- 1. The family background:- If you are not from a efficient and rich family background then, you are forced to get satisfied with what u get by easy efforts n without a penny to worth it. 2. The surrounding:- The area where you live is a major factor that affects your career.  3. Parent's dream:- It is basically the story of every lower mid...

Relation and Relationship.

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What's the first thing that come in your mind when you hear realtion, it maybe Uncle, Aunty,Father,Mother etc.,. And relationship reminds of our paternity and maternity basically. But is that so? What is the actual sense of a relation and how a relationship can be build-up n groomed or maintained? Relation:- It is basically a thread of attachment with people. Relatioship:- It is the strong, deep and close acquaintance between two person. Relation has many faces and it varies from person to person and place to place, suppose U are on a shop at that time the relation with the shopkeeper will be of just a trader and host and if that same shopkeeper lives besides your house then the realtion at home becomes of Neighbour. But relationship is maintained by the emotions and the effects a person is making on your mind and in your life. An uncle can be your relative by birth but if u have no emtional attachment for him then your Realtionship doesn't exists. Relationship is n...

Hardwork.

There is an incident about Md. Ali (boxer) narrated by one of the most decorated bodybuilder Sir Arnold Schwarzenegger . The story is from mid 70s when Md. Ali and Sir Arnold Schwarzenegger met once, Md. Ali was doing push ups Sir Arnold asked how many did u did. Md. Ali replied "I never start counting untill it hurts." The point is are u doing this level of hardwork to achieve your goal. Are u trying your best to achieve ur goal? If not,then, what are your dreams n how r u going to achieve it.... Always remember hardwork is needed along with smartwork. Hardwork isn't anything without smartwork n although you are very smart n lazy you can't do n achieve a thing. These both qualities are nothing bt only a two side of a same coin termed as SUCCESS.