Ego and Self-respect.

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What is Ego? Is there a difference in Self-respect and Ego? Or these both are the same? How an Egoist sees a world and how a intellectual with Self-respect sees this world? Let's try to cop with with this many aroused questions 
Proving yourself better than a person and understanding your own value is called Self-respect. While, misjudging yourself as best is termed as Ego.
Ego is the factor that comes in a person's mind which literally made them blind , they can't even evaluate between truth and false. When a person acquire this in place of Self-respect , he/she looses their value in society, ownself , and also in the eye's of the relatives. There is only a little or minor line between Self-respect and Ego. But it affects one's whole life. That minor or negligible line can change a whole mindset of a person. For ex:- Duryodhan was a good warrior , he had a large army led by Pitamaah Bhishma , Mahadaani Karna , Guru Kripaacharya , Guru Drona and many great warriors bt at the end of the day He was an Egoist, who did not much care about anyone and their feelings and everyone in this Aaryawarta is aware of the result. 
Self-respect is a weapon which helps us to cope the situations and also it acts as a shield against all the uninfluenced and all the negative powers. It is basically understanding what you are and what you can achieve. It is believing and proving yourself better not best , if you ever tried to prove yourself best it's the EGO there and gradually SELF-RESPECT dies there. 
No matter how you live , what you eat. Your value doesn't depend on these factors. 

The factors which turn Self-respect into Ego mainly are:-
1. Lack of knowledge:- There is a profound quote in English,"Empty vessels make much noise." It represent that a person with an incomplete or no knowledge have very negligible Self-respect and a very high negative aura and a massive Ego.
2. Lack of awareness:- A person who is not that much aware about the world or the things around them are too much unlikely to build-up their career and a better life too.
3. Narrowminded:- Many people think that they are the only one and no one is better than them. They are the only one. This is because of their ability to think , they can't even imagine a person better than them.
At last , only things that matter is believe in yourself. You can achieve what you want just have faith in yourself and  never , I repeat never let yourself down for anyone and anything. 

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