Mature and Immature.

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Are we truelly matured ? What is the age of attaining maturity ? How a mature person act and how a immature person behaves in a certain condition ? 


Maturity is not related to your age , you can see a 10 years old boy carrying off his family burden or even an 25 years old boy who depends on his family like a burden. Maturity is not just having a perfectly trimmed beard and a perfect example of it is Ashish Chanchalani and Amir Sidddique. Maturity is when you start to realise that you are the one who is responsible for the failures of your life not the conditions.
A mature people takes the responsibility in spite of blaming others. The decisions we all take in our life can be somewhere bad or even worst but for that no other but only we are the responsible. We must take the responsibility and try to put extreme efforts next time when the same phase stands against us. Maturity is not speaking everywhere and proving ourselves better but it is also being QUITE and enjoy the show. Not to get offend easily is also a major sign of maturity. 
Knowing your boundaries and the value of the WORDS you use are also the signs of being matured. Now, one question will surely haunt you i.e.,. How to check whether we are mature or not ?
Check these 12 major things in the given picture:-
If you have some of things listed here then , you are not immature but in the verge of attaining MATURITY. Making yourself unavailable and being isolated is also a sign of IMMATURITY. Everyone have their personal space and it should never be crossed by anyone but on the other hand you should also respect others point of view and should also appreciate them. Anger, jealous, enemity, rudeness etc.,. are not the qualities of an mature person. Controlling these signs will make you more confident and strong. These signs makes you weak n gradually hollow from inside. 
Your controls over your needs, your emotions, your attitude makes you mature. Blaming the situations and others are the signs of a weak and an immature person. 
Many decisions taken in our lives are not simple and they tear us apart but being stable in that condition also is a sign of a winner. Decisions can be wrong but not you. 

At last no body cares about you except your parents so only think about your parents and you no-other is going to help or save you from the darkness of life. 

Be happy and spread happiness. Don't be slave of time, a person or money....

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